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Methods

Methods

Parents often feel that somewhere out there is the one right way to teach a child to read, and all they have to do is find it. In reality there are several approaches, and each has its strengths. Here we describe them in general terms, without names or branded programs, explain how to tell whether the path you've chosen suits your child, and take apart the myths that add to parents' worries.

The best approach is the one that leaves your child reaching for a book on their own — not the one people talk about the most.

— From the editors

How this section works: we compare approaches by what they involve and what matters at home, drawing on guidance materials for parents. We don't name proprietary methods or programs, and we don't claim that one path suits every child.

Approaches to early reading

ApproachWhat it involvesWhat to keep in mind
Reading aloudA grown-up reads to the child regularly; together they look at the pictures and talk about the story. The child gets used to the language of books, hears new words and starts to understand how a story is built.Suits everyone at any stage, including children who already read on their own. What matters isn't how long you read but doing it regularly in a warm atmosphere.
Sound gamesThe child learns to hear individual sounds in words, find rhymes and break words into syllables. This is the foundation for later reading: before you can see a sound in a letter, you need to hear it.Works best as play, without workbooks or grades. If your child consistently mixes up sounds, it's worth having a speech-language pathologist take a look.
Phonics and blendingThe child links letters to sounds, blends the sounds into words and gradually reads faster and with more confidence. This is how most children learning to read in English are taught today.At first, reading is slow and the meaning gets lost. Taking turns helps: the grown-up handles the hard parts.
Whole-word readingThe child recognizes familiar words as a whole: their own name, labels on boxes, captions under pictures. This gives them the joy of first recognition and the feeling that they're already reading.A good addition, but not a substitute for working with sounds: a child will still need to sound out a new word piece by piece.

How to tell if an approach suits your child

The most honest sign is mood. If after your activities your child happily picks up a book, looks for familiar letters on their own and asks to play again, you're on the right track. But if every invitation to read is met with tears and excuses, it's time to change the format, not to push harder.

You can — and should — mix approaches. In the evening you read aloud, during the day you play rhyming games, and on the weekend your child tries to read a caption under a picture. None of these steps cancels out the others.

Notice what comes easily and what's a struggle. What's easy can be supported and made a little harder, while what's hard is better brought back into play. If a difficulty lasts a long time and doesn't go away even in a calm setting, talk to a teacher or a speech-language pathologist.

  • Lessons

    Lessons for parents: how to read aloud, talk about a book, play with sounds and meet letters without hurrying.

  • Practice

    Game-like activities for home: a week of sound games, retelling from pictures and signs that your child needs a break.

  • Glossary

    Simple definitions of words about sounds and letters, about reading and about how a children's book works.

  • FAQ

    Answers about this guide, about reading at home, and about when and whom to ask if reading is a struggle.

Sources

  • Guidance materials for parents on early reading (in general terms)
  • Editorial materials of the All For Children guide

The advice in this guide is kept general and draws on guidance materials for parents and on children's library recommendations about reading as a family. Every child finds their way to books along their own path and at their own pace, so follow your child's interest and mood, and bring any questions about speech or reading to a teacher or a speech-language pathologist.